Woman And Her Career - A Really Serious Relationship Issue

I'm a 23 years old woman (who's going 24).
In my age that almost reach the golden age of career (some people said), I have already find the job I wanted, within the salary that suitable with my career timetable and career, also a position that increase my dignity.

Unfortunately,
I haven't meet someone that equivalent with the achievement I had.
I have meet someone who loves me, but with the condition I mentioned above.
It becomes really a trouble, because, I was not allowed to fly and reach my dreams.

Yesterday, I ask him for supporting me because I want to take a professional course to support my career,
Instead answering my question, He said, I'm too ambitious, and that's not good for our relationship.
When I asked him, how this can be an obstacles in our relationship, he didn't answer my question.

The woman and her career becomes a serious issue in some research,
I don't need to mention those research result, I just wanna say, it happens in my life

Yes, I might an ambitious woman, in some acts, I can be so selfish and egoistic,
But, what I've done, my behavior, is because I grew up in a hardworking environment.
My mother is a single woman in 2/3 of my life, she raised me and my sister alone, and try as hard as she can so that her children can grow up to be a great person exceeding her.
  
In my career path and social life, I am required to be able to take decisions in many situations.
My mom told me from I was a child, that I must be independent and tough.

Life is hard when I was a child.
It's hard for me to get what I want, as you know, children are always demanded,
And I can't force it all to my mom.

That's why, my past really inspires me to work hard, so I can also become like my mother and become a person who dependent on her self.

But that didn't mean I don't need a man.

I know, as a person who have a religion,
Man are made for woman, vice verso.
That's why, I always appreciate my man, whoever he is.

I have dating a person who have worse financial situation than me, I understand, I'm not demanded, when we must broke up because of that matters, now he already becomes a greater man who can stand out on his own feet. His friends said that, the relationship he had with me in the past, and the devastation feeling ​​makes him a strong man to prove that he can be a successful man. 
I'm okay, that means, our relationship in the past can become a lesson for us to be a better person.

And right now,
I have a person who have a better condition in every aspects than that man,
But why, he must hurt me with his words,
Who against my dreams.

He said, I can't be ruled, I can't be taught, I can't be touch, my mind untouchable.

People's words must be based on what they felt.

I'm sorry and apologize, that I become the woman like he said,
Maybe, he's just not ready yet with my long term goal, my perspective about the world and life that I wanted, maybe he's just not ready yet.

I understand, he's in the condition that he doesn't need to be hurry, 
He doesn't need to be rush,
Surely someone's behavior is closely related to the way he was raised
Grew up in a wealthy family, who never feared shortages throughout his life,
It is very normal to feel scared to get out from comfort zone, and to stand out in his own feet.

You are very easy to guest,
And I understand you,
You don't know, that I always wait you patiently, with my own way
You just don't know, and still, I can understand you.

Maybe, all of the changing you said I am,
It's because you're not ready to step out of this world and run
Run chasing me, run chasing the dynamic of the life, run reaching your own dream

I'm so sorry, to be a person who's hard to tell
Instead all your thoughts, I always understand your fear.
You don't need to be so rough.

Thank you for reminding me always, 
That I'm a woman, who need to be loved and ruled,
Woman that need a guidance, woman that don't need to work that hard,
That because, is all become your duty as a man

You don't need to go,
You just need to believe, that you can run chasing me and your own dream,
And we can be a great couple

You just have to believe
In every decision that I made,
None of it is bad for us